GUIDE TO NURTURING CHILDREN

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1) Do not hit the child from the knees up
2) Do not use your hands / body members for hitting the child with his hands and do not use our hands slapped the child. Later the child to be more stubborn and mischievous and can not control.
3) Rattan / at children in the soles of his feet. Scientifically it has to do with reflexology and stimulating to the brain.
S.a.w. Prophet
"Berguraulah with your child old age one to seven years. Have fun with them, joking to ride on the back it does not matter. If you like Tickle, pursue or teased the child as long as close contact. After seven to 14 years we educate and teach, if one strike him (as lessons) "
4). Start your child's life with a good nickname. Name a bad call will cause your child to feel shame and low self-esteem. (In Islam a good nickname is encouraged).
5). Pelukkan Give your child every day. (Studies show that children adopted each day will have the IQ of my strengths stronger than children who rarely adopted)
6). Look at your child's view of love (This view will make your child more self confident when dealing with the environment)
7). Give your child every time strengthening good.(Give praise, pelukkan, kissing, gift, or at least smile for all the good it does).
8). Do not expect your child is not mature well to do an act on an ongoing basis, their only child is growing. Their development make them want to experience every perkaratermasuklah make mistakes.
9). When you are faced with the problem of work and family, choose a family (One writer said the children continue to grow. At that time continued to pass and will not be returned).
10). Bringing up and educating children, not sir / madam complained. Complaints will make the children feel that they load.
11). Listen to your child's story, the story you will not be able to listen again in the near future. Wait for your turn to speak (This will teach your child about their turn to speak)
12). Soothe your child every time they need it.
13). Show your kids how to calm yourself. They will be imitators.
14). Make some preparations to welcome the birthday child. Prepare a unique birthday gift even cheap. The uniqueness will make your child learn to appreciate.(ANAK2 I appreciate the dtg of the environment will learn to appreciate other people).
15). The possibility of teaching our children receive is not the first time to learn. They may require us to teach them more than once.
16). Please take the time with your child outside the home, the children hold hands when you walk with them. They will surely feel the importance of their presence in your life husband and wife.
17). Listen to the nightmare of your children. Their nightmares are so real in their world.
18). Appreciate your child's favorite games. They are also in the same time will appreciate your favorite items. Avoid waste their precious goods even if it is damaged. Ask for their permission before doing so.
19). Do not allow your children to bed without a kiss good night.
20). Accept that sometimes you are not a perfect parent. This will reduce parenting stress.
21). Do not always carry the burden of office work to home. Children will learn that office work is often more important than family.
22). Child crying to relieve their anxiety, but sometimes just for sound effects only.However Listen to them, twenty years from now you will be crying when the house began to feel lonely. Your children listen to the crying child began to busy themselves.
"Kids like a white cloth. Parents Who mencorakkannya the Jews, Christians or Magian "